hi my lovely anon! firstly, thank you so much for coming to me and trusting my input. it means absolutely everything to me.

no, sweet anon, it’s not bad at all. my friend is 28 and has never been on a proper date or had a boyfriend, either! i know this is going to sound so incredibly cliche and stupid, but everyone’s timelines happen differently. don’t pressure yourself into going on dates or finding a boyfriend just to please others. do it for you. you know? (i say this as i am desperately sad that i am not in a relationship or engaged, but i feel u, anon).

things will happen for you when they are meant too. you don’t want to waste your own time being in a relationship or dating someone just to say you have (which i have done, and it sucks). you’d rather wait and be with someone who means everything to you, treats you the way you deserve to be treated, and who loves you for you. it’s not bad at all lovey. sending you tons of love! x